success mantra to clear SSC

#Success_Mantra
Many  job aspirants don't clear competitive exams. Have you ever asked  yourself why it happens? There are a lot of suggestions in internet telling you  about the strategies to crack exams. But they don't tell you about the reasons why many job aspirants fail.

So let me shed some lights over it-

1. Books, Books and Books-

I have observed that SSC and bank aspirants are running behind books. They always ask about books to different selected candidates.
See, it's not necessary that selected candidates would have read same books to clear exams. There are a lot of books for each subject in the market. And every book is good in its own way.

But the problem with aspirants is that they think that if they  read all the books mentioned by selected candidates, they will be able to come up with flying colors.

Guys, I always suggest that quality matters,not quantity. You just read one book for each subject thoroughly and revise it time and again. That's more than enough.

So instead of brooding over books, pick up one or two books which you feel are your cup of tea and then complete them thoroughly.

2. Mujhe tips and strategies Chahiye 😛-

Sare aspirants Ko tips Chahiye sare logo se jinka selection hua h..The Same rule stated in point no. 1 applies here.

See, there are different ways and paths to go to the door of success. There is not a single path that leads to the door of success. If you choose one particular path and goes in that direction, you will certainly get the door of success. But If you try to go to all ways and paths at one time, you will just completely mess your life.

What I am trying to say is that every selected candidate has his own strategies. It's not necessary that every selected candidate would have adopted same strategy. So it's useless to ask everyone about their strategy.

Instead of that, just go through some good sites like Ssctube, sscnaukari,qmaths.in etc and read strategies given by selected candidates and then choose the one which suits you. And start following them and stop asking each and every candidate about his strategies. It will just drain your energy.

3. "Pyar ka punchnama"-

You would have heard the dialogue in movies, "pyar Kiya nahi jata, bus ho jata hai".
Come out of these bullshits if you really wanna do something bigger and better in your life.

I am not saying that loving someone is a sin or it will destroy your life. I am just saying that it's not necessary to fall in love because everyone else in your family or friend circles has girlfriend or boyfriend.

Don't fall in love. Instead rise in love. And one can rise in love,only when he/she truly loves a person.
See,there is a slight difference between love and lust. Most of the job aspirants are between 20's and 30's. And owing to harmonal changes, we feel that we need someone to whom we can love , we can spend time with. And these thoughts lead us to flirt with a guy or a gal. It has been observed by me that in social media, friendship with opposite sex starts with chat and flirt. And then it changes to lust.

And gradually you start falling with that person. And the love which comes out of lust is very complicated and risky and it results  in unhealthy , complicated and tensed relationship.

As I said above that it started with flirt. When you see a person of opposite gender who is handsome (if he is a guy) or beautiful (if she is a girl) with great figure, you start getting attracted to that person. And you start flirting or chatting with them with the thought that it's just for fun and refreshments.gradually
 you start chatting romantic things with them
And most of the time, such kind of fun leads to some kind of complicated relationship. You start feeling something for them. In short, you start loving them.
And these type of love which comes out of lust leads to disturb your mind and soul.
This is the main reason why most of the young chaps are not able to concentrate in their life goals. It spoils everything.


So guys, if you really wanna do something bigger in your life then start concentrating which matters most.

Love is not bad. And one should fall for someone if it's true love. But love is part of life. Don't make it your Single goal. There are many things that should be done at the right time. And a good respectable job is one of them.


4. Spending too much time in social media-

Stop wasting your time in social media. I am not saying to not to use social media. Do use it to connect with your family and friends. But don't spend too much time in it.
Excess use of social media leads to some kind of disturbance and disconcentration.
Try to live "real life" instead of "virtual Life". 😉

5. "Bahut competition hai bhai,Apun se na ho payega .."-
This kind of nature will not lead you anywhere. It will just demotivate you.
Lord Buddha had said,"what you think, you become". So if you think that you can't clear an exam then you will definitely get the taste of failure. Stay positive and stay with positive people

P.S.- 1. Sorry for the elongated message. But it's necessary to clear each and everything

2. Avoid grammatical mistakes, if any.